What are the different Minhagim Youyou or other people have with the drinking of the Winewine at havdala during the "9 Days"?
doDo you drink it yourself, or do you use Chamar Medinah, (a non-wine substitute)?
and whichWhich one is better halachicly
you
? (You should probably define which Chamar Medinah you use,and if you give it to a child to drink, how old
and or dos it matter if the
a child is male or female?, and what gender.)What if there is no child?