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A wife wants to stop going to the mikva. What does that mean for the husband?
Halachically, you transgress a biblical commandment if you knowingly have relations with a niddah, and the punishment is karet. See this answer, which cites Rambam Laws of Prohibitions on Relations 4:...
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A wife wants to stop going to the mikva. What does that mean for the husband?
I am impressed by the gravity of your inquiry and your care in the matter in that you are seeking real answers to a complicated question. May Hashem help the two of you and anyone else in need of this ...
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How does one receive forgiveness from someone they have wronged after their death?
Shulchan Aruch here
אם מת אשר חטא לו מביא עשרה בני אדם ומעמידם על קברו ואומר חטאתי לאלהי
ישראל ולפלוני זה שחטאתי לו (ונהגו לבקש מחילה בערב יו"כ
If the person against whom he sinned has died,...
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Why is alcohol not prohibited?
Rabbenu Avraham ben HaRambam writes:
If God would forbid everyone to drink wine and alcohol as he forbade non-kosher animals and fowl, not all would be able to comply...such a prohibition would ...
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Why didn't Adam ask for forgiveness?
Bereishis Rabbah 22:13 seems to indicate that Adam didn’t know that he had that option:
פָּגַע בּוֹ אָדָם הָרִאשׁוֹן אָמַר לוֹ מַה נַּעֲשָׂה בְּדִינְךָ, אָמַר לוֹ עָשִׂיתִי תְּשׁוּבָה ...
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Source for: Abstaining from sin being considered a mitzvah in Talmud Bavli
Kiddushin 39b:
רמי רב טובי בר רב קיסנא לרבא תנן כל העושה מצוה אחת מטיבין לו עשה אין לא עשה לא ורמינהי ישב ולא עבר עבירה נותנים לו שכר כעושה מצוה אמר ליה התם כגון שבא דבר עבירה לידו וניצול הימנה
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"Fathers shall not be put to death because of sons, nor shall sons be put to death because of fathers" - Contradiction?
The Gemara in Meseches Brachos 7a says the following addressing this seeming "contradiction":
(Source from Sefaria.org)
והא כתיב (שמות לד, ז) פקד עון אבות על בנים וכתיב (דברים כד, טז) ובנים ...
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Is wasting seed a sin for a gentile?
The Tzitz Eliezer brings opposing sources in his responsa discussing whether Bnei Noach are 'neherag' for wasting seed. Either way it seems undesirable from the remaining sources that he brings i.e. ...
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Where are there discussions about Torah commands that nobody is known to have broken?
There are 3 mitzvot in the Talmud-Gemara Sanhedrin 71a, 1 in Makkos 7a and 1 in Mishna Zavim 2,2 in which the required procedure of punishment have never been enacted by the sanhedrin, due to lack of ...
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Is wasting seed a sin for a gentile?
One is not judged by the 613 commandments unless one is born Jewish or formally converts. A non-Jew could feel they have a Jewish soul, but may eat pork aplenty until converting. (In fact, non-Jews ...
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How is the Jewish understanding of the sinful soul of mankind different from the concept of "original sin"?
You cannot really appreciate Jewish theology in a meaningful way from answers on the Internet. This requires years of study, and knowledge of context.
For example, the first quote, which was the ...
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Tehilim 51, "in sin did his mother conceive him", What does that mean?
Rav Sa'adya Gaon explains in his commentary to Psalms (51:7) that David was not making a statement about the state of Man. Rather, he was speaking personally; that he was so ashamed, that he felt as ...
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Difference between sins of Saul and sins of David?
David's sin was a personal matter, Saul's was national.
King Saul was personally commanded to eradicate Amalek. This was a national interest which was under his authority as king. When he sinned and ...
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Why aren't there any Gay people in the Bible?
In this week’s Torah portion parshat Vayeira Genesis 19,5 it says about the wicked people of Sedom who got destroyed because of their sins:
וַיִּקְרְא֤וּ אֶל־לוֹט֙ וַיֹּ֣אמְרוּ ל֔וֹ אַיֵּ֧ה ...
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Sinning and G-d's will, what's wrong with this logic?
Very short answer: Hashem wants creative beings in His own "Image" more than He wants any particular event.*
So far that's just a paraphrase of Loewian's answer.
We can go one step closer to the ...
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Why did Chava give Adam the fruit to eat?
In a comment to the OP's question Fred cites the well-known Rashi (see above). The Bartenura on the Torah expands on this Rashi (text borrowed from Sefaria.org, produced here in full):
ותתן גם ...
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Waiting to do teshuvah until 20
The implication of the last mishna in Yoma is that the answer is no:
האומר, אחטא ואשוב, אחטא ואשוב, אין מספיקין בידו לעשות תשובה.
One who says, "I will sin, and then repent, I will sin, and then ...
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What is the punishment before Vayehi Bineso'ah Ha'aron?
Ramban to Numbers 10:35 :
וקרא החטא "פורענות" אע"פ שלא אירע להם ממנו פורענות ושמא אלמלא חטאם זה היה מכניסם לארץ מיד
Chazal call the sin "punishment" even though no punishment occured, maybe ...
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what is the source that a parent carries the sins of their children when the children are minors?
One of the places that this is mentioned in, is in Bereshit Raba 63:10
אָמַר רַבִּי אֶלְעָזָר צָרִיךְ אָדָם לְהִטָּפֵל בִּבְנוֹ עַד י"ג
שָׁנָה, מִיכָּן וָאֵילָךְ צָרִיךְ שֶׁיֹּאמַר בָּרוּךְ ...
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When can I attend service (Shabbat) after seminal emission?
The problem, as I understand it, is that your struggle is causing you to be distanced from normal, healthy mitzva behavior. Dr. Yocheved Debow writes about this phenomenon in her guide for educators.. ...
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Is there a Jewish theology equivalent to Calvinism?
That philosophy violates some core tenets of Judaism:
The concepts of teshuva and atonement are very important in Judaism, and say that we can repair a damaged relationship with God. The "you're ...
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What drove humans to their first sin?
I heard an explanation, which was attributed to R' Moshe Shapiro, that basically said the following (sorry I don't have his sources, I heard it second-hand):
Adam was given a supremely spiritual and ...
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Learning Torah from a confirmed sinner?
Dovid Lichtenstein, in his excellent book Headlines 2, researched the question and brings many opinions.
Among those who rule against learning from a confirmed sinner (sometimes only until they return ...
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How can I curb my sexual desire?
Rav Nachum Rabinovitch in his Shu"t Siach Nachum (p.308) suggests not obsessing about it ("v'afilu lo lshem charata uteshuva" - "even not in the interest of regret and repentance") and instead ...
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Kol Nidre: Is it lawful to pray along with sinners?
The previous answer does touch on the point that this was a declaration to excuse those placed in cherem (excommunication). See this comprehensive article that discusses the topic as well as how some ...
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Is cheating in a test an Averah?
R. Moshe Feinstein has a responsum about cheating. He was asked by someone who had heard that in yeshivot they allow the students to steal the answers for the Regents.
R. Moshe answered that it is ...
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Are thoughts of sin punished halachically?
The Gemara in Masechet Yoma (29A) says:
הרהורי עבירה קשין מעבירה וסימניך ריחא דבישרא
(Thoughts of sin are harder than sin itself, as smell of meat is more attractive than taste of meat)
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Is it greater to refrain from doing an aveirah than to perform a mitzvah?
Presumably this is quite a broad and interesting question but Or Hachaim on Shemos (3:5) claims that the reason that God tells Moses to not come near to the burning bush prior to telling him to remove ...
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Will we be obligated to bring many chatats when the temple is rebuilt?
As Scimonster mentioned the Gemara in Shabbos appears to address this. "קרא והטה וכתב על פנקסו אני ישמעאל בן אלישע קריתי והטיתי נר בשבת לכשיבנה בהמ"ק אביא חטאת שמנה" (Shabbat 12b)
Rabbi Yishmael ...
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