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Menstruating on Wedding Day
Practically speaking, the wedding goes ahead as planned, with minor differences at the ceremony:
The groom is careful not to touch the bride when putting the ring on her finger.
The groom does not ...
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Building a Mikva Upstairs
There is no Halachic issue
SA YD 201.7 Rema
הגה: מותר לעשותו על הגג ובלבד שלא יהיה תוך כלי או אבן אחת שחקקו ולבסוף קבעו אבל חבור אבנים הרבה לא מקרי כלי (תשובת הרשב"א סימן ת"ת):
Its allowed ...
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May a mikveh immerse by shower rather than by tank?
This wouldn't work, as Mikvah water needs to be contained (Ashboren) not flowing (Zochalin). See Rambam Mikvaot 9:18 for a parallel case.
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Difference between Chabad mikvaos and other mikvaos?
It's not politics (at least not purely); it's a matter of construction. Suppose you have a big pit in the ground that collects rainwater; everyone agrees that pit is a mikvah. Fine. Today, people want ...
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Menstruating on Wedding Day
She has a chuppas niddah. It was a dispute among the Rishonim as to what extent chuppas niddah is effective, but common practice is that they go ahead with the wedding as normal (Shach Yoreh De'ah 192:...
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Removing Niddah status without a mikvah
Shulchan Arukh (YD 201:1) writes:
אין האשה עולה מטומאתה ברחיצה במרחץ ואפילו עלו עליה כל מימות שבעולם
עדיין היא בטומאתה וחייבים עליה כרת עד שתטבול כל גופה בבת אחת במי מקוה
או מעיין שיש בהם מ' ...
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Why does water purify?
R Aryeh Kaplan in his beautiful book Waters of Eden (also part of his Anthology vol. 2) writes this is a chok and cites Bamidbar Rabbah 19:8
By your lives, a dead person doesn't make things impure, ...
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Aruch Hashulchan on municipality water for a mikvah
Aruch Hashulchan YD 201:169
ויש מקוות בערים הגדולות שבשם הולכים המים מהנהרות לכל בתי העיר דרך צנורות וסלונות תחת הקרקע בעומק ונקרא בלשון המדינה וואד"א פראוואדי"ן וממשיכין גם למקואות המים ...
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How does one create a mikvah in a region without precipitation?
Ohr.edu says that in an area where there is no rain, snow can be trucked in.
Putting snow in a mikveh and letting it melt is in fact one of the
methods sometimes used to fill a mikveh. I hear ...
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May one immerse in a body of water that was used for baptism?
A private mikvah used for baptism would be prohibited. As per BT Avodah Zarah p.58B and 59A, though, a body of water in the public domain cannot become prohibited, see discussion below:
ר"ל איקלע ...
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Mikvah during UK COVID-19 Lockdown
This is the guidance issued by the United Synagogue.
The observance of Taharat Hamishpacha (the laws of family purity) is a fundamental mitzvah. Mikvaot remain open for women. Best-practice ...
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Can I convert a pool into a kosher mikvah (for wife)
Obviously, as you mentioned, you'll ask a specific shaila.
Here's a couple of issues for you to check out and ask:
1) how was your pool made? If it was a preformed concrete block which is placed in ...
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Did the Rama change a Minhag regarding Mikvah?
The Lev Haivri* writes when the Rema was accepted as Rav in Krakow, there had a strange Minhag in the city.
The morning after a woman went to the Mikvah, the Mikvah Lady’s husband,
wished the ...
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Shomer Negiyah- negated by Mikvah?
The issue of touching a woman when sexual intercourse is forbidden is addressed in Shulchan Aruch Yore Deah 195, sayf 17; Shach Sayf Katan 20; Gemara Shabbos 13; and the main discussion is in Sefer ...
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Source for Groom's Immersion in Ritualarium (mikveh)
Nitei Gavriel Nisuin1 9:7:11 quotes this Minhag in the name of Chupas Chasanim 6:1 (appx year 1800), Yalkut Mai'am Lo'aiz Devarim 22:12 (appx year 1700), Taamei Hamitzvos L'Rikanti (appx year 1300) - ...
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What happens if a non-Jew uses a mikvah?
Maimonides states in the Laws of Forbidden Sexual Relations 13:4, that a non-Jew immerses in a mikveh by himself, it has no effect.
The Shulchan Aruch in Y"D 268:3 holds this way as well, provided one ...
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Can mikvah water become tamei?
Water in a Mikvah does not become Tamei. (Actually, Tamei water is the only food/drink which can become Tahor again, and this is by connecting it to a Mikvah (Mishna, Beitza 2:3).)
See the first ...
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Where are the 24-hour keilim mikvaot in NYC?
I just called Washington Heights Keilim mikvah. Located on Bennet Ave. between W. 185 St and W. 186 St. Manhattan.
Phone: 212 923 3582
The woman told me that the entrance is to the right of the ...
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How many times should I make sure to dip when I toivel in the mikveh?
You should dip once, as the Rambam says in הלכות מקואות - פרק ראשון that somebody who dips more than once is behaving inappropriately.
The Kesef Mishne explains the reason: It looks like he's bathing ...
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Why does one need to go to the mikvah before writing a letter in the Torah?
As @DoubleAA wrote in the comments, this is not halacha, but a minhag brought by some, e.g., from here #2
"Ritual immersion on a regular basis (not just because of the decree of Ezra) is fitting ...
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Embarrassed to go to mikvah
Find a distant Mikveh where nobody knows him and different hours
Find a real frum Mikveh - Haredi guys don't care at all
re-Consider the importance of going to Mikveh - it's not a necessity, not a ...
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Embarrassed to go to mikvah
Go the ocean, which is as kosher a mikvah as they come, wearing a loose-fitting garment
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Embarrassed to go to mikvah
You ask:
How should I comfort him as a friend and tell it's importance?
Answer:
It's not important.
You ask:
Is there any solution for his problem?
Answer:
He doesn't have to go to the Mikveh ...
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Why dunk three times in a mikva?
The Sefer Chasidim (siman 294) brings a source for this practice. Namely, that "tahor" is found three times in a passuk in Tanach that relates to the mitzvah of immersion.
The p'sukim are:
1)...
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Is it possible to build a mikvah for personal use as an orthodox Jew?
The question seems to be not if it it theoretically possible to build a private mikva, but practically how to go about doing so. This is beyond the scope of a Q&A website, and that is not a new ...
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How can a mikvah be kosher if rain water flows through it?
As mentioned in the comments, the Mikva already has 40 seah and the running rain water is in addition to that so it won’t make it passul. I’ve searched for a direct source for this on this Rambam and ...
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May a couple forgo relations out of convenience?
It appears that yes, indeed, you can postpone relations if both spouses agree, but it is best avoided.
The international Beis Horaah says
It is better not to postpone marital relations, but if it ...
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Do permanently unmarried women need to go to the mikvah?
There is a Tannaic dispute whether or not going to mikveh at the earliest time possible is an independent mitzvah (טבילה בזמנה מצוה או לאו מצוה) (see e.g. Yoma 8a). According to this opinion, a woman ...
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A wife wants to stop going to the mikva. What does that mean for the husband?
You might explain it to your wife like this:
Judaism makes the most important things in life mandatory rather than optional. It is not optional for a Jew to pray. It is not optional for him to have ...
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Halachic issues with using a frozen river as a mikvah
It seems that if danger is involved, then one may not dip in frozen water, as you can see in the answer here:
בארץ קרה מאוד בטרק נידח, לבד, טבילה בקרח היא לא על גבול סכנת הנפשות?!
אם זה כך, אין ...
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