I'm an Italian son of Noah.

In the Italian legal system, as I believe in many other countries, in addition to divorce there is the legal separation between the spouses. According to the Italian law with legal separation, which is a prerequisite for divorce, for both spouses the obligation of cohabitation and the obligation of reciprocal fidelity are extinguished:that is to say, they can legally have sex with other people, although the spouses are still married because they have not yet divorced.

In Italy legal separation between spouses is preliminary to divorce, but does not oblige spouses to divorce later, and in fact it happens that several married couples remain legally separated without divorcing.

According to the Halakhah, under what circumstances a married couple of Gentiles is considered divorced,regardless of what is established by the Laws of the Nations?

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    IIRC the definition of marriage and divorce for nonJewish couples is based on the laws of their location. As a result, if the state recognizes them as no longer a couple, they are considered no longer married. I do not quite understand your usage of the term separation no longer requiring fidelity. For example, in the United States, separation means still married until the divorce is final. Please clarify what you mean. In any case, it would depend on the local law. – sabbahillel Dec 26 '17 at 22:28
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    I do not understand the phrase mutual fidelity. In the U.S. as an example, separation means they cannot live together (or cohabit), but they are still married in the sense that they cannot cohabit with others (which is what I thought mutual fideity means). – sabbahillel Dec 26 '17 at 22:41
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    If they're "no longer obligated in mutual fidelity" that may not meet the halachic standards of a marriage. – Heshy Dec 26 '17 at 22:42
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    OK thanks. I had never heard of that concept, so I cannot comment on it. – sabbahillel Dec 26 '17 at 23:04
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    @Amos74 Since you seem to be indicating that this question is related to you specifically (like a practical halachic decision for you to follow) I am suggesting that this question is inappropriate for this forum. You need to consult with your local, competent Orthodox Rabbi. If you are unable to locate someone, you can seek a referral from the Court for Bnai Noach set up by the nascent Sanhedrin. thesanhedrin.org/en/… – Yaacov Deane Dec 27 '17 at 18:18

From first glance it seems
It is not adultery on the level that you need to be put to death by decapitation since the

Ramam says (kings chapter 9)

When is a gentile woman considered divorced? When her husband removes her from his home and sends her on her own or when she leaves his domain and goes her own way. They have no written divorce proceedings.
The matter is not dependant on the man's volition alone. Whenever he or she decide to separate, they may and then, are no longer considered as married.

But there is a law to have a court so you still must behave according to the law

But there probably are more books with better details regarding the 7 laws.
After seeing the details I might see that I am wrong

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    @Amos74 why do you think the inability to get married he's something to do with adultery, from a Noahid law perspective? – hazoriz Dec 27 '17 at 10:24
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    @Amos74 I see it like this (tell me if I am wrong) there is 1. Noahid (and Jewish) marriage (which the Raman explains) which means A. the wife stays by the husband and B. the husband has the right to use her for relations (sex) (which is not our case) and there is 2. Italian marriage with its laws. If we recognize Italian marriage laws should we not also recognize the law that permits relations after separation? (if Italy G-d forbid recognizes Gay marriage I do not think that has any affect on the Noah'id law) – hazoriz Dec 27 '17 at 11:11
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    @Amos74 I think you can – hazoriz Dec 28 '17 at 10:09
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    @Amos74 but not now since it's on hold, first you need to make the question Not personal , but theoretical – hazoriz Dec 28 '17 at 10:11
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    @Amos74 maybe you can just tell me what the Rabbi said, i would appreciate it – hazoriz Jan 3 '18 at 11:22

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