What has the halacha have to say about a husband and wife sharing oral intercourse (in either direction)?

closed as off-topic by Yishai, user4523, Baby Seal, HodofHod, ray May 11 '14 at 5:26

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    @DavidPerlman, the policy for this type of question is evolving here: meta.judaism.stackexchange.com/questions/123/… . You (and everyone else here) are welcome to join the discussion and help us come up with a policy that is best for this community. – Isaac Moses Jun 17 '11 at 14:40
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    I don't understand why this was closed. This is an open-shut halachic question that isn't explicit or vulgar. And the statement "questions relating to sexuality are discussed only in private," is patently false, as amply demonstrated in the meta-discussion. Voting to reopen. – Shmuel May 7 '14 at 23:55
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    This question appears to be off-topic because of the previous reason it was closed. I would appreciate a final decision from the moderators. – Yishai May 8 '14 at 18:45
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    This is a question that is personal in nature and whose answer depends on the circumstances under which it is being asked. It involves a number of issues for which a general answer in not applicable. Rabbinical guidance is needed. For example, a Rabbi may rule that a particular behavior is permissible for a couple that is experiencing marital issues in an effort to save the marriage. That same behavior would be inappropriate for a couple who is not in that situation. To generalize answers of this type is akin to prescribing medication without knowing the symptoms. This forum is wonderful a – user5395 May 9 '14 at 7:00
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    As worded, this question is not asking for practical advice or a pesak, nor is,it "personal in nature". It asks "what Halacha has to say" about the issue, not "can I have oral sex." My answer presents the different opinions in the Halakhic discussion on this issue, without issueing any kind of practical pesak. And so, as I've said before, I don't see what the problem is – Shmuel May 11 '14 at 17:38

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