My husband is incapable of marital relations due to antidepressants and psychological issues. This came as a shock after marriage. I was too ashamed and embarrassed to seek help, and my mother kept urging me to try to work it out. However, there are some things I cannot change. We have two children by artificial insemination. I don't plan on breaking up the family, but I long for normal marital relations. How can I live a virtuous life under these circumstances?