Answer to Q4:
In the version in Maseches Sofrim (20:9), this teaching is actually cited in the way you propose:
דתני ר׳ שמעון בן יהוצדק ימים שמנה עשרה ולילה אחד יחיד גומר בהן את ההלל [...] ובגולה עשרים ואחד יום ושתי לילות
For R' Shimon ben Yehotzadak taught: On eighteen days and one night does one complete Hallel. [...] In the Diaspora, twenty-one days and two nights.
Likewise Tosefta Sukkah 3:2 (h/t magicker72):
י"ח יום בשנה ולילה אחת קורין בהן את ההלל
On eighteen days and one night does one complete Hallel.
And likewise Yerushalmi Sukkah 4:5 (19b) (h/t again magicker72):
תני שמונה עשר יום ולילה אחד קורין בהן את ההלל בכל שנה.
It was taught: On eighteen days and one night does one read Hallel on them every year.
As to why Arachin doesn't say it this way, presumably it's because the Gemara isn't discussing nights. In context, it's addressing days on which certain instruments were played in the Beis HaMikdash before the Mizbeiach; as this is only done during the day, there's no need to address the one or two nights on which Hallel is also said.