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I know that someone cannot eat milk immediately after meat and vice versa. Is it ok for two people to kiss if one person has just had meat and the other has just had milk? Do they, perhaps, need to wash their mouths beforehand?

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    I was once in shul when someone asked the rabbi "If you're eating meat, and your wife dairy, when can you two kiss?" Before the rabbi could respond his wife called out "when he does the dishes!" – Popular Isn't Right Mar 8 '18 at 13:00
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At the very most stringent, both of you should eat a piece of bread, and bench. Beyond that, don't give it another thought.

https://oukosher.org/blog/consumer-kosher/the-halachot-of-waiting-between-meals/

Must one wait after a dairy meal before eating meat?

After eating dairy, one can eat meat so long as he does the following: 1. cleanses his mouth, 2. rinses his mouth, and 3. washes his hands. Some also have the practice of reciting the necessary berachot after the dairy meal, waiting, and then reciting new berachot for the meat meal. The need and permissibility of reciting berachot in this case is a subject of halachic controversy. One may clean his mouth by eating or drinking something pareve. Any solid pareve food other than dates, raw flour and greens can be used. Steps 1-3 may be done in any order.

  • 1. Do you have a source? 2. How is both of them eating bread better than one of them doing so? – WAF Oct 18 '15 at 1:07
  • The question relates to whether there is milk residue or meat residue between the teeth of the husband and wife. And even then, whether there is the potential for mixing the milk and meat. If, one had meat and the other had hard cheese, eating bread would clear the teeth from the milk. Benching creates the separation. – Yaacov Deane Oct 18 '15 at 1:34
  • But the truth is that these details relate more to the personal standing of the husband and wife. Are they both, truly, standing in such a place in terms of their personal Avodah. The most important thing is that the husband and wife are united...together, in a state of complete unity, spiritually and physically. – Yaacov Deane Oct 18 '15 at 1:44
  • @WAF I have changed the formatting on this answer. This was a direct quote from the OU Kosher website link that was provided above it. My last comment was not about the meat/milk separation, but the idea that the husband and wife need to focus on agreeing in their avodah together. Particularly with younger couples, one being more zealous than the other, like on the subject of this question, can lead to marital friction. Shalom Bayit is the primary point of focus in matters like this. – Yaacov Deane Jan 14 '16 at 20:54
  • Will it not be more stringent if they drink instead of benching , (why is not washing and wiping their lips not enough) – hazoriz Jan 14 '16 at 21:31

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