I am what you refer to as a gentile but I have an interest and cursory understanding of Kabbalah and the red string precept of pertinence to not judging others. i.e. Evil eye.
I've gone to great lengths to discipline my thought processes as they occur in my attempts to not judge others however I'm concerned that by not judging transgressors, I'm perpetuating the transgressions. It feels akin to inviting further transgression by not reacting as I conventionally would.
Where does non-judgment end and the intelligent defense of oneself begin?
Hypothetically, let's say an individual transgresses against me (slander, infidelity, violence et al.). Is the realistic expectation of further transgressions from an individual that has historically and consistently transgressed against me not a form of judgment? Are my attempts to neutralise the negative effects of the transgressor not predispositionally judgement based?
It feels unnatural and counter intuitive to suppress my anger towards my transgressors.