Is it permitted for couples to have relations in the daytime if they are tired in the evenings?
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2Why is the assumption that they can't? That may make this a better question. – andrewmh20 Sep 14 '14 at 0:50
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1Is it permitted to have relations in the evening if they are tired in the day? What if they had chicken for dinner? But what if it's partly cloudy? – Double AA♦ Sep 14 '14 at 0:55
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1Related: judaism.stackexchange.com/q/22092 – msh210♦ Sep 14 '14 at 5:04
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3....keep in mind that Mi Yodeya is not really a place for practical halachic advice -- any information you get here should be treated as if it came from a crowd of your friends.... – MTL Sep 14 '14 at 5:42
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1@DoubleAA I'm trying to say make your criticism constructive and phrase it in such a way that it encourages better questions, and doesn't sound like you're making fun of the person. Andrew's comment is constructive without coming across as snarky. – Robert S. Barnes Sep 14 '14 at 17:11
We learn in Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 240:11 סימן רמ - איך יתנהג האדם בתשמיש מטתו:
אָסוּר לְשַׁמֵּשׁ בַּיּוֹם, אֶלָּא אִם כֵּן הוּא בַּיִת אָפֵל
One is forbidden to have relations during the day unless it's a dark room.
From this we see that in a darkened room you may have relations during the day. There is no prerequisite for the daytime to be more convenient.
BTW: In Shulchan Aruch Even haEzer 25:5 סימן כה - לגדר גדר שלא להרבות בתשמיש, וכיצד יתנהג בשעת תשמיש we learn:
אָסוּר לְשַׁמֵּשׁ מִטָּתוֹ בַּיּוֹם, שֶׁעַזּוּת פָּנִים הִיא לוֹ
That a person is forbidden to have relations during the day. However, there's a note there to see the Halacha in Orach Chaim.
answered Sep 14 '14 at 8:13
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The Talmud (Niddah 17a as understood by Rashi) praises people who, due to being tired at night and not enjoying the experience, have relations during the day time. – Double AA♦ Feb 4 '16 at 6:10
