Is it halachically permitted for a man to exercise in a gym in which there are women who are not dressed modestly? Does it make a difference if there are no other gyms available for the person to go to? What about if there are other options, but they are economically burdensome (e.g. one can go to a mixed gym for free vs. pay to go to a single gender gym or to get one's own equipment)?

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    Do you have any reason to think the fact that it's a gym is relevant?
    – Double AA
    Commented Jun 19, 2014 at 18:34
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    @DoubleAA where else would these issues come up?
    – user5173
    Commented Jun 19, 2014 at 18:42
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    The beach? The city of San Diego? Commented Jun 19, 2014 at 18:44
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    @YEZ An important part of the question is that the place has exercise equipment available for free (or a lower price than elsewhere), something unlikely to find on a beach or lying around in a city.
    – user5173
    Commented Jun 19, 2014 at 18:50
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    user5173, anything that's important to the question ought to be in the question post. Extending @DoubleAA's question: Do you have any reason to think that the availability of exercise equipment is relevant to the question of Halacha at hand? If so, please edit your post to include this background.
    – Isaac Moses
    Commented Jun 19, 2014 at 18:53

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If we are talking about somebody who suspects that he may fall to temptation and have inappropriate thoughts about the immodestly attired women there, it is forbidden. There are numerous issurim involved - gazing at inappropriate things is forbidden by לא תתורו אחרי לבבכם ואחרי עיניכם, and having inappropriate thoughts is forbidden under ונשמרת מכל דבר רע (see A"Z 20b, Kesuvos 46a). [See here for further discussion]

The real question arises to someone who is confident in his ability to withstand temptation to gaze at immodest sights, and to keep his thoughts on permissible things.

The Gemara (Baba Basra 57b) writes:

׳ועוצם עיניו מראות ברע׳ - א"ר חייא בר אבא זה שאין מסתכל בנשים בשעה שעומדות על הכביסה. היכי דמי: אי דאיכא דרכא אחריתא, רשע הוא אי דליכא דרכא אחריתא, אנוס הוא? לעולם דליכא דרכא אחריתא ואפ"ה מיבעי ליה למינס נפשיה

One who has two paths available, and takes the path where there are women washing is categorized as a רשע - a wicked person - although he averted his gaze and did not look at the inappropriate sights. The Rashbam explains, this is because one is forbidden to enter into a situation where there may be tempation; he is wicked for putting himself into a nisayon.

רשע הוא - ואף על פי שעוצם עיניו שלא היה לו לקרב אלא להרחיק מן העבירה דקיימא לן חולין הרחק מן הכיעור - רשב״ם בבא בתרא נ״ז

Accordingly, if one has an alternative option, one may not willingly enter a situation where he increases his temptation. If he can exercise in a place where there will not be inappropriately clad women, he must do so.

If there is no other way for him to exercise, this is considered ליכא דרכא אחרינא, and when faced without any option, the prohibition of entering a nisayon falls away - provided that he is confident he will not transgress any of the aformentioned prohibitions. Even so, R' Moshe Feinstien rules (Igros Moshe EH V1, §56) that in a recreational capacity, it is not considered ליכא דרכא אחרינא.

ולכן צריך לומר דכיון דהאיסור הוא רק משום חשש שיבוא לידי הרהור רשאי לסמוך על עצמו שיסיח דעתו מהן ולא יהרהר מחמת שיסתכל בהן כשיש לו צורך ללכת שם לצרכי פרנסתו וכדומה ואינו מחוייב לחשוש ע"ז ביותר ולהפסיד ממונו ולמנוע משאר צרכיו, ורק כשאין לו צורך לעבור כאן כגון באיכא דרכא אחריתא וה"ה כשאין לו צורך לילך שם דהולך רק לטייל שאף בליכא דרכא אחריתא הוא אסור לסמוך על עצמו שיסיח דעתו דהא זהו האיסור ונשמרת שלא יסמוך על עצמו לומר שלא יהרהר אבל במקום צורך רשאי לסמוך שלא יהרהר.

  • It would take a really cool and strong individual who is totally fullfilled and spiritually aware to go to a gym/beach/city at summer time without the gazing and the primitive thoughts creeping in
    – user16556
    Commented Jul 16, 2019 at 19:41
  • Cont: See however משנת חכמים, based on עבודה זרה י״ז. It seems to be in direct conflict with the Gemara BB 57, but he writes that a tzaddik who knows he can trust himself should test himself by putting himself into the nisayon. To me, this is contrary to numerous Gemaras, but intellectual honesty requires me to quote the opposing shitta too.
    – chortkov2
    Commented Jul 16, 2019 at 20:40
  • Didn't see your comment before the cont: (Sometimes they get deleted by the moderation for reasons I sometimes can't grasp nor comprehend). To me it sounds a bit absurd that he SHOULD volunteraly and willingly put himself in a 'tempting' position/situation. Was thinking about a rather a clean minded and pure individual who doesn't mind the provocations and distractions from the European ladies in those settings (beach/gym/metropolian city during summer time and so on) when they come his way involuntarily and not upon his own decision to get confronted with that.
    – user16556
    Commented Jul 16, 2019 at 23:58
  • I think it takes a general level of maturity. Even if a married Jew comes across attractive women, the thought process should be 'Thank you for creating such beautiful creatures' directed towards his father in heaven. Once he leaves the social setting, he should direct all his thoughts away from what he had to see during the day time at work, on the road or in the gym. And instead focus his energy, compassion and love towards his loved ones. That is my personal ideal as long as we're exiled and live in the west
    – user16556
    Commented Jul 16, 2019 at 23:59

TL;DR: best to CYLOR

In an answer titled "Men and Mixed Gyms," dinonline.org writes:

There are two issues with a man going to a mixed gym. The first one is the same a going to a mixed beach- he will see women when they are dressed immodestly. The torah tells us, (Numbers 15-39) “Not to stay after our eyes”, and not to look at woman Included in this is to look at women when they are immodestly dressed.

The second issue is even if the women are totally dressed, the man will see the women exercising and in positions that will cause him to have immodest thoughts, which is also prohibited.

Sources: Y:D 21-1 Bais Shmuel ibid 2, from Rabeinu Yonah

He also addresses a woman going to a mixed gym, and while a little more lenient, seems to advise against it.

yeshiva.co in "Mixed Gym" writes:

There could be two problems with using a mixed gym:
The first is having to see inappropriately clothed women.

The second problem is the obligation to act in a fashion that lives up to people's expectations of what a good religious Jew should be doing.

R' David Sperling says problem #1 can be solved by:

... using the gym at hours where very few people are there, and you could find a spot where you could avoid [shmiras einayim issues].

In terms of #2:

Generally religious Jews use separate gyms for men and women (for the reason we wrote above), and even if you use a mixed gym in a halachically acceptable fashion, if others could think you were doing the wrong thing, it would be forbidden. This law depends both on who you are, and what the situation is where you live.

yeshiva.co provides an additional answer (R' Yoel Lieberman) and the thrust seems to be one should determine "what applies to you according to Halacha and what is best for maintaining the holiness of your neshama."

Conclusion: CYLOR.


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