I'm interested in what the teaching of the Jewish religion is on a man marrying a woman who had a deceased husband? Is there further considerations in regards to whether the widow has children. A woman cannot with the best intentions be a father to her boys would it be OK to have a second man in her life to help with male role models for her boys?
Would it be better for them to marry or could a living arrangement that is beneficial to both widows be made for the children that does not involve marriage?