I would venture to say that the two out of three which we do pray for, rain and techias hameisim, are completely out of our ability to control. Having children, however, is something which humans are involved in.
Now of course this begs the question what about other brachos in Shmona Esrei which are also accomplished through human action, at least sometimes, such as Rifaeinu.
But I will point out the following regarding these three special items which Hashem Himself has the key for, and based upon this you rightfully argued should have all been included in Shmona Esrei. The two that were included weren't put into the sheilas tzorchav, requests for ones needs, section of Shmona Esrei, as was Rifaeinu. They were put into the section of shvach, praise, not bakashos or hodaah. Mentioning something a human can be involved is not shvach of Hashem. Therefore fertility was left out.
Of course if someone needs to be healed as far as fertility goes, they can always put in a personal supplication in its proper place.