וַיִּחַר־אַף יַעֲקֹב בְּרָחֵל וַיֹּאמֶר הֲתַחַת אֱלֹהִים אָנֹכִי אֲשֶׁר־מָנַע מִמֵּךְ פְּרִי־בָטֶן׃
Jacob was incensed at Rachel, and said, “Can I take the place of God, who has denied you fruit of the womb?” (Gen 30.2)
Yaakov was extremely eager to have children with Rachel on his wedding night, but, seemingly, this desire vanished altogether once he started fathering his sons from another woman. And not only that, once Rachel asks him openly and desperately to put more [spiritual] effort in having her own children, probably implying that by being a Tzadik Ben Tzadik (unlike her) he can surely force G-d to hear his prayers, Yaakov gets angry and waves her off saying something like "it's your problem".
Is this a contemporary Halachic behavior we should all learn from?
Sorry for this tone, I just completed a couple therapy course, try to square it with our sources.