Suppose a secular Jewish couple got civilly married- no halachik ceremony- and they get their marriage license. Could this marriage license serve as a Halachik Shtar, ie they'd need a Get if they wanted a divorce?
(please scroll to the bottom for an example of a secular marriage license)
Initially I thought "No way! Of course this wouldn't be a valid shtar! Where are the witnesses, and the shtar wasn't written l'shma!"
However after taking a look at the Shulchan Aruch where kiddushin via a shtar is discussed (Even Haezer 32:1-4), I'm not so convinced. Allow me to explain:
- problem of no witnesses-
The gemara in Sotah 3b teaches us a we need sh'nei eidim (two witnesses) for the kiddushin to be valid. We see in Even Haezer 32:4 that:
כתבו בכתב ידו ואין עליו עד מקודשת מספק (נ"י פ"ד אחין) ינתן לה שטר ואמר לה ע"מ שהנייר שלי אינה מקודשת (הר"ן פ"ק דקדושין):
If he wrote it in his hand and there are no witnesses on it she is questionably engaged (Nimukei Yosef the Chapter of Four Brothers). If he gave her a document and said, on the condition that the paper remains mine she is not engaged (Ran First Chapter of Kiddushin).
-if there are no witnesses she's "questionably engaged"... that doesn't sound like a "no" to me.
- problem of not being l'shma- The gemara in Kiddushin 9a-9b teaches us a that shtar kiddushin must be written l'shma. We see in Even Haezer 32:1 that:
וצריך שיכתוב אותו לשם האשה המתקדשת כמו בגט
And he must write it for the woman he is getting engaged to like with a Get.
-What's to say what qualifies as "l'shma?" Maybe calling the marriage office and indicating he wants a marriage license for him and his wife could be considered enough to meet the requirement of "l'shma" ie "for the woman"!
So...
Obviously not something one should do l'chatchilah, but could a secular marriage contract potentially serve as valid shtar Kiddushin?
For reference: A sample NYC marriage licence: