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Aug 2, 2019 at 21:45 comment added LN6595 In practice, once custody is assigned to the mother it is not reassigned to the father on the basis of the child’s age. Changes in custody are relatively rare and always serious.
Dec 1, 2016 at 0:19 comment added msh210 (re your comment) Interesting. Thanks for following up. Maybe you should edit the info into the answer post.
Dec 1, 2016 at 0:16 comment added Shalom @msh210 Rabbi Reiss has a yutorah mp3 on child custody. Basically it's unclear from Rambam's language whether they stay with mom or switch at age six, and there are opinions both ways; it appears we tend to pasken the latter -- the thinking is that the lad will then learn better from dad -- at least that's the overall rule of thumb, all else being equal.
Jun 21, 2013 at 9:50 comment added Shalom @msh210, huh I hadn't thought about that, thanks. I'd have to ask a contemporary dayan; my sense is in the past you'd hand the kid off to 1 parent and that parent was in charge from then on out. (Suppose mom stays in Israel with baby boy and dad moves to California and remarries; it would seem cruel that suddenly on his seventh birthday she has to ship him off to California for good.) In today's world of joint custody, visitation and whatnot, I don't know. But my inclination is "for the rest of childhood."
Jun 20, 2013 at 6:38 comment added msh210 Boys aged six or under at the divorce go to their mother for the rest of their childhood, or until age seven?
Jun 19, 2013 at 22:17 history answered Shalom CC BY-SA 3.0