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Dec 2 '12 at 21:49 comment added juanora For sure pileguesh is a better way to unmarried guys.
Nov 29 '12 at 13:18 comment added AdamRedwine I don't know. I suppose that would be a good question to ask.
Nov 28 '12 at 23:29 comment added juanora who said that sex before marriage is worse than masturbation?
Nov 27 '12 at 21:28 comment added AdamRedwine I am well aware of the differences between masturbation and sex; I participate in both on a regular basis. It is, however, neither healthy or normal for a post-pubescent person to not have any sexual release. When people advocate that masturbation is bad, as you do, they encourage unmarried people toward harmful practices.
Nov 21 '12 at 10:33 comment added juanora I agree that repressed sexuality is bad. But "normal and healthy" is not masturbate, is sex. Otherwise, what is the propose to man have a penis and woman a vagina? Btw, the only reason that you are in the world is because your father and mother did the real normal and healthy way. Probably, if you are saying that masturbate is good, you dont know what is sex... Sex is much more complex, pleasure and healthy for our body and mind than masturbate. Look the difference between: newscientist.com/article/…
Nov 20 '12 at 16:15 comment added AdamRedwine I don't beleive that masturbation is "good" though I believe it is perfectly normal and healthy. I also believe that teaching children that masturbation is bad causes more harm than good both to the child and to society through the neuroses that develop as a result. I believe that represed sexuality is actually one factor in the prevelance of militancy amongst extremely religious groups.
Nov 20 '12 at 15:00 comment added juanora Why you dont understand? Like, what arguments do you have to say that is good?
Nov 20 '12 at 13:58 comment added AdamRedwine I understand your position. I very much disagree with it, but I understand. I do not think that masturbation is bad for people. I just wanted to know why others disagree.
Nov 20 '12 at 13:25 comment added juanora Also here is a advice for my own experience: know that each sin is sin. If you fail once after 3 weeks of fasting, you DONT have a free pass to sin until the new fast. Each sin is a sin, and a new challenge that you have to gain. If you truly believe that commit this sin will be harmful for your soul, body and mind, you will see that any argument that you have to do it, you are fooling yourself(you will realize this just after the desire is gone). Control yourself. Worth. After a while with abstinence, you gonna start to change your mind and you behavior."eize hu gibor hakovesh et itzro"(avot)
Nov 20 '12 at 13:19 comment added juanora Have a gemara(dont remember also when) that says that have a member that more you feed more is the hunger. So when the person stop in the begging is very hard, but tend to get easier.
Nov 20 '12 at 13:13 comment added AdamRedwine I find it fascinating the degree to which Conservative (Masorti) tradition encourages questioning and logic versus how much the Orthodox and Haredi traditions encourage blind obedience.
Nov 20 '12 at 13:06 comment added juanora Haha, had a time that I had the same problem... Since get married wasnt a valid possibility for me that time, I searched about the subject and apparently (dont remember the sources...) that masturbate is really bad and repulsive by G-d and is WORSE than some kinds of sexual relations...
Nov 20 '12 at 1:27 history answered juanora CC BY-SA 3.0