Whilst this might not necessarily be easy or practical, there may be more readily accessible approaches that can help us re-orient our emotions. For example, we are told in Melachim II 3:14-15 that Elisha had become angry and therefore asked for a musician to help calm him and thereby make him ready to receive prophecy. 2 Similarly, the Gemara in Shabbos 30b - 31a talks about Mar who broke an incredibly expensive cup when he saw that the Rabbonim had become excessively merry which had the effect of making them become more sombre.