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Jan
26
comment Did Pharaoh himself drown at Yam Suf
@YeZ I believe the stackexchange policy is if you feel an answer could be clearer, write your own, rather than editing someone else's.
Jan
26
comment Did Pharaoh himself drown at Yam Suf
@YeZ I thought it was a bit more clearly-phrased for those with less yeshiva background. It's intended to complement user6591's answer.
Jan
26
comment Are there any leniencies for shortening the torah reading so the cycle takes more than a year?
@ShmuelBrin not that I know of (maybe it's in the Igros Volume 9?). It's something I was told (reliably), not something I read.
Jan
25
comment Eating fish and meat together
@user6591 that's the way R' Schachter shlit'a reads the Magen Avraham as well: he's actually arguing and saying it's permitted. Many, though, still don't actually do it. Someone asked Rabbi Schacter at the practical level if he'd eat them together: "well, my wife wouldn't serve them together!" "Okay Rav Schachter, if you came to my house and we were serving fish-and-meat, would you eat it?" "Well, I should ..."
Jan
25
comment Can one adopt a non-Jewish child and not convert him/her?
@msh210 agreed I'm not the Chazon Ish! I'm not saying, "don't do it because the high-and-mighty Shalom declared it prohibited." I'm pointing out that it's likely to make all sorts of problems for parents and/or child (and I can elaborate if anyone wants). The Rabbi Willig story was to point out that some things are horribly bad ideas even if you can't find a chapter and verse to prohibit them.
Jan
23
comment Can one adopt a non-Jewish child and not convert him/her?
@ClintEastwood -- someone asked Rabbi Mordechai Willig about going to the movies with someone else's spouse of the opposite gender. (He and she both liked Harry Potter, and their respective spouses didn't.) He said it was a bad idea. "Oh? Where does it say so?" "The whole Torah!"
Jan
23
comment What is shiduchim?
The point is some preparation period/process. Note that many in the non-Hassidic world no longer do "tnoyim" today; the couple says they're engaged, without a formal binding agreement-to-wed.
Jan
20
comment Recommendation for a digital Torah codex for software developers
@Scimonster. Ah, thank you. The questioner wants something closer to public domain, I take it?
Jan
20
comment Given Chametz by a Guest on Pesach - how to react?
Oh you shouldn't have, really!!
Jan
20
comment Given Chametz by a Guest on Pesach - how to react?
I'd prefer the toilet, myself.
Jan
16
comment Why is the Haftorah of Acharei Mos Kedoshim Halo Bnei Kushiim?
@Fred reworded. Thank you! The Soloveichik part was to read Halo Chivnei twice if necessary.
Jan
12
comment Why is every 3rd plague (of the 10 brought on Pharoah) unnanounced?
@DanF sorry, I buried the lede! It's now in bold.
Jan
12
comment married couples never sleeping in the same bed
@Yoel Rav Moshe writes that it is absolutely permissible and appropriate for a man to kiss his wife as long as she is tehora, and we are not concerned about hirhurim or anatomical reactions that may occur.
Jan
12
comment Wedding invitation Hebrew abbreviation
Hello and welcome to J.SE! Please stick around!
Jan
11
comment What is shiduchim?
@Hazoriz Rabbi Aaron Rakeffet has suggested meeting the other person's parents first; Rabbi J David Bleich has suggested doing some joint planning of a wedding. Same idea. The point is you're not marrying in the blink of an eye.
Jan
11
comment What happened to Rabbi Akiva's money?
@Fred in short: why blame the Romans for disappearing wealth when there's a perpetual-kollel son-in-law?
Jan
11
comment What happened to Rabbi Akiva's money?
@Fred there's also the Gemara in ... Kesubos? that he gave Ben Azzai a tidy sum to marry his daughter (and Tosfos says Ben Azzai broke the "engagement" because he couldn't stand the break in concentration from Torah learning.) I wonder if Rabbi Akiva got a dime back from Ben Azzai?
Jan
5
comment From where do we know that sexual intercourse with a non-jewish woman is forbidden?
I'd phrase it as "a Jewish man can be killed by zealots for involvement with a non-Jewish woman", not the other way around. (Though yes, theoretically the zealot would not be charged with murder if he killed both of them mid-act.)
Jan
2
comment What is the the amount a person who feels weak on a fast day could eat or drink?
@Fred thank you!
Jan
1
comment Why is it often Claimed a Forced Get is Invalid?
@RobertS.Barnes yes the law has given the beit din some very nice tools -- but you need a good beit din that can get a good grasp of the situation and not be afraid to pasken that "coercion" is justified.