Questions tagged [minhag]
Questions about Jewish customs and traditions.
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Placement of the Hoshanot service
I’ve noticed that some congregations (generally nusach ashkenaz) recite Hoshanot after Musaf on Sukkot, whereas others (generally edot mizrach, nusach sefard, some Israeli nusach ashkenaz) recite them ...
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Custom of two people not clothing someone together
Probably a common occurrence is when putting clothes on a baby, both parents will try to do it together to make it easier (one puts on the shirt, one puts on the pants, etc.). Someone recently told me ...
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Why do we say Ushpizin in Aramaic?
There are things that we say in davening in Aramaic. I have seen a few explanations as to why (as per this Q and A) but I don't know where Ushpizin fits in with that. I'm not sure if anyone would call ...
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What is the origin of the minhag of kapparot?
What is the origin of the minhag of kapparot? What if one chooses not to do the minhag? Is one less favoured by God? Is there a certain benefit to doing kapparot?
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Pre-Rambam Teimani Siddur?
I have been told that Teimanim today use the Nusach of the Rambam. So, what Nusach did they use before him? Does anyone use such a Nusach today? And is there a Siddur of such a Nusach?
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Is it appropriate to use the nusach of Rosh Hashanah on the days until Yom Kippur?
Is it appropriate or inappropriate to use the nusach of the High Holy Days when davening on the days in between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur? Because we put additions into the Amidah (Zokhreinu, etc) ...
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When to start saying Kaddish
In terms of halacha and minhag, when can one start saying kaddish for someone who has passed. Only after the burial?
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Which officiants wear a kittel on Rosh HaShanah?
In many Ashkenazi congregations, most of the congregants do not wear a kittel on Rosh HaShanah; however, a number of the officiants do wear a kittel.
It seems to me to be fairly common that at least ...
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Outside of prayer/worship, where is it written that there is a requirement to wear a kippa?
Outside of prayer/worship, where is it written that there is a requirement to wear a kippa?
I have heard that there's no halachic requirement to wear a kippa other than for prayer/worship.
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Is a traditional Yekke Sargenes similar to the Skver style, all-linen, non-embroidered Kittel? I think so; I'm not sure about the "hood", though
Below is a link where one can view a
Skver/New Square Style Kittel for sale
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What is the origin of using tombstone symbols?
I was at a cemetery today and noticed a few interesting "icons" placed on certain tombstones. Someone explained to me the following:
spread-out fingers used for a Cohen, representing the ...
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Oleh and chazak chazak
I've heard that, when receiving the last aliyah in a particular sefer, the oleh (one who received the aliyah) should not say “chazak, chazak…” because it is a berachah given to him by the congregation ...
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Should Baruch Hu Uvaruch Shemo ONLY be recited during blessings?
If one hears their friend reciting Torah verses, and says Hashem's name, should one recite BHUVS? Does this response only apply to brachot?
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Stacking Seforim
Are we allowed to place less holy seforim on top of more holy seforim? I believe that the consensus is that you are only allowed to stack seforim in chronological order from top to bottom (e.g., ...
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Did Rabbis in the Shtetl dip their shoes in water to travel on Shabbat?
Edit: I was informed that this is found in one of Sholem Aleichem's books. If you could help me figure out which one, I would appreciate it.
I heard from someone I know that back in the Shtetl, Rabbis ...
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Beer at a Shalom Zachor
There is a common custom I have observed to serve beer at a Shalom Zachor. This is also mentioned here with some speculation about the source.
What is the source for this practice?
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Are the Torah's 5 Book divisions (Bereshit, etc.) justified by the Hebrew text?
I wonder if the Hebrew text divides the scroll of Moses as clearly into 5 Books/Sections as modern translations do (by adding titles as if they are 5 books of Moses), or whether, for example, the ...
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Is a female convert "bas Avraham" or "bas Sarah"?
...Or, I suppose, "bas Avraham v'Sarah?"
What is the most authoritative name to use: 1) In tefilo? 2) On a document such as a conversion certificate or ketubah?
If this varies by community, please ...
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How was it permissible to send the daughters out to dance?
As discussed in Taanis 31a, it was on Tu B'Av that the men of Yisrael sent their daughters to dance in the vineyard as a loophole to their vow not to marry their daughters off to Shevet Binyamin, in ...
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Praises about Chok L'Yisroel
I have started learning Chok L'Yisroel and enjoying it thoroughly. I'm just wondering if there are any praises / segulas associated with it?
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Doing something good 3 times is like a neder. Can the 3 times be even in the same day?
An acquaintance told me that the 3 times must occur on 3 separate days but I cannot find a source for this, please let me know if you know of a source either way.
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Authorities on Dutch Minhogim
Does anyone know of any rabbonim who are considered experts/authoritative in regards to Dutch minhogim. I know Rabbi Hamburger is considered the go-to authority for minhog Ashkenaz at large, but are ...
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When and why did we stop wearing sackcloth?
When and why did we stop wearing sackcloth in times of mourning and other times of distress (e.g., when fasting for rain)? (I presume sackcloth was quite uncomfortable.) Sackcloth is mentioned in ...
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Which non-garments really need to be tested for shaatnez?
Shaatnez (a mixture of wool and linen) is forbidden to be worn. I always thought this applied only to garments but, after looking at lists of items to be checked, I see that they also list many non-...
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How to kiss tzitzit while wearing a mask
An offshoot of this question.
It is some people's practice to kiss their tzitzit during davening. When one wears a mask, one is really kissing the interior of the mask. Should one still bring the ...
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Different traditions in Hebrew pronunciation [closed]
The theme of Hebrew pronunciation is one that facinates me and, as such, I want to get some feedback on some issues I've been thinking about for years. I have already discussed some of these issues ...
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Speaking while wearing Tefillin - revisited
In today's day and age the vast majority of the time we only wear Tefillin when we are Davening. However, in theory, we should wear them all day (ibid). So what about the requirement not to speak ...
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Why skip wife's name in invitations?
Although there is certainly a wide range of 'customs' regarding this question, why do some Orthodox communities skip the wife's first name in invitations saying:
"Mr. and Mrs. [Husband First and ...
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Minhag of married women shaving during marriage
The custom for married women to shave their heads is, evidently, a fairly widespread custom that exists at least amongst (certain) Hasidim. I have heard a variety of supposed, non-authoritative ...
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"zeved habat" or simkhat habat [duplicate]
Is there any mention in jewish law about "zeved habat"or shimkhat habat??
And what are the things to be done according to the law?
Also is it necessary to do this zevad habat if it cross many years?
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Are computer-generated vocals permissible during Sefirah and the Three Weeks?
According to those traditions which prohibit music during the Three Weeks and parts of Sefirah, but permit a capella, would listening to computer-generated vocals be permissible during Sefirah? Is the ...
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Minhag not to view moon through a window?
I have a vague memory of being told not to gaze at the moon through the glass of a window. I think it had something to do with kabbalah. I know it's permitted to say kiddush levanah by looking at the ...
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What is the significance of a yahrtzeit meal?
Some people are particular in having a yahrtzeit meal on the anniversary of someone's passing. Does this custom have any documented source, significance, or reason?
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Why are challot traditionally braided?
What is the reason that challot are traditionally braided? When did this tradition begin?
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Why did Jews stop saying RaḤmana
At the times of the Mishna and Gemara, one of the more commonly used names to refer to God among Jews was RaḤmana, literally the Merciful. It seems like this was widely used as Hashem is today. When ...
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Costumes On Purim
Why is there a Minhag to dress up in costumes on Purim?
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How did the mesorah for how to put on tefillin change? [duplicate]
I understand that there are many differences in customs between Ashkenazi and Sefardi Jews, since they follow the rulings of the sages from their own communities. The differences in pronunciation (...
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Reform wedding ceremony changes
I saw a video of a Reform wedding ceremony, and noticed many differences between theirs and a traditional Orthodox ceremony.
Sheva Berachos were recited before Kiddushin (the giving of the ring)
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Where should the stone left on a grave come from?
I will be traveling for an unveiling soon and intend to leave a stone at the grave. Since I will be traveling I have the ability to bring the stone from where I live or to find a stone near the ...
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Could a recipe achieve the force of halachah?
A binding custom may have the force of halachah, eg wearing a kippah in the everyday. Apart from festival dishes, though (where I can see a certain customary force to, say, cheesecake at Shavuot, and ...
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Why is gefiltefish eaten at passover?
This is something I've been wondering for a while, so hopefully I can get a good answer.
Why do we eat gefiltefish during passover, and where did this tradition come from? Is there a story, similar ...
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use the bathroom as a changing room
from shulchan aruch orach chaim 2 mishna brura there
and shulchan aruch orach chaim 239.2
(davka feldheim translation
2: THE LAW REGARDING PUTTING ON CLOTHES
mishna berura
1. "...For this reason, ...
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Schlissel Challah
What is the source for the "Key Challah" Segulah (charm) that is said to bring Parnassah (prosperity)? And which is it: do you put the key in the Challah or do you make the Challah in the shape of a ...
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Is there a Jewish non-verbal greeting?
Some cultures have non-verbal greetings (e.g., https://www.cnn.com/travel/article/handshake-alternatives-gestures-around-world-trnd/index.html) and these are being recommended in lieu of a handshake ...
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Psalms after the evening prayer
The other day I was discussing with a friend the daily recital of Psalm 83 after the morning prayer, when this friend told me that it was also said after the evening prayer if it was said early,* and ...
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Has there always been a standardized size for Tefillin or did the size vary throughout history until recently?
I recently came across an image which showed a variety of Tefillin boxes that were much smaller than what I am use to seeing.
The image shows them lined up by size with the smallest being roughly ...
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Praying based on national merit - Early examples
It seems to be a common theme in the prayer service that we ask for our needs basing our requests on the mercy of G-d, and, occasionally, on the merit of our forefathers. Nonetheless, we find some ...
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Why do the mothers break the plate?
At a wedding [or by the engagement], a plate is customarily broken at the "tena'im." This has already been discussed over here.
As I have seen at weddings, and as is brought over here the custom is ...
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Davening without a Minyan - Hallel Pesach night [duplicate]
There are those that say Hallel, Pesach night after Maariv. This year when it looks like, due to COVID-19, we will still not be Davening with a Minyan Pesach night, does one who is Davening without a ...
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Fasting in Nissan for epidemic
In general we refrain from observing fast days during the month of Nissan (S"A O"C 429:2). There are some exceptions, like a taanis chalom.
For a communal distress such as a deadly epidemic a ...