Doe anyone know the reasoning for the requirement to use a flame that was lit over Yom Kippur for Havdala?
My family's custom is that, on motzae Shabas, someone making havdala, after drinking from the cup, pours some of the wine into the saucer (which, note, already had wine, because we overflow the cup on ...
After saying the blessing over fire during Havdala, we do something (customs vary) involving looking at our fingers by the light of the Havdala candle. I'm wondering how seriously we take this part of ...
What is the proper procedure after saying the Brocho בורא מאורי האש? I understand you "look," but at what?