For someone who married without a halachic pre-nuptual agreement, are there any halachic authorities who recommend giving a conditional get (bill of divorce) which stipulates that it would go into effect if/when one of the parties wishes to end the marriage?
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I doubt you would find any Halachic authorities who recommend giving a conditional Get.
The reason being that after giving such a Get, he may not seclude himself with his wife.
If he did seclude himself - and there are witnesses, then even if she subsequently fulfills the condition on the Get, she is only possibly divorced - הֲרֵי זוֹ סְפֵק מְגֹרֶשֶׁת.
This defeats the purpose of what you're trying to achieve, and possibly aggravates the situation.
Find this in the Rambam הלכות גרושין - פרק שמיני:
And the Shulchan Aruch also Paskens like this in סימן קמח - דין המגרש בגט ישן, והמגרש בתנאי, ושלא יתיחד עמה