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Is there a prayer that is said by others on behalf of someone who is about to undergo a dangerous (non-cosmetic) surgery? Is the מי שברך the most appropriate?

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You can mention their name in the section of the Shmoneh Esrei prayer which is devoted to healing. This addition is included in the standard Artscroll siddur. –  Malper Nov 19 '13 at 23:36
    
There is a prayer that one who is actually undergoing the surgery can say from it's on a [refuah card] (refuahcard.com/TefilaEng.html) –  Chiddushei Torah Aug 17 at 5:18

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The gemara says (Brachos 60a, on the bottom):

אמר רב אחא הנכנס להקיז דם אומר יהי רצון מלפניך יי' אלקי שיהא עסק זה לי לרפואה ותרפאני כי אל רופא נאמן אתה ורפואתך אמת לפי שאין דרכן של בני אדם לרפאות אלא שנהגו

Rav Acha said that someone who goes for bloodletting should say "May it be Your Will, Hashem my God, that this practice should be a healing, and I should be healed; for You are a trustworthy Healer and your healing is true," because people don't get healed by themselves (they need God to heal them).

( free translation )

This is brought down by the Rambam, Hilchot Berachot 10:21 (as well as Shulchan Aruch, Orach Chaim 230:4, who writes pretty much exactly the same wording as the Rambam). Here is what the Rambam says:

הַנִּכְנָס לְהַקִּיז דָּם אוֹמֵר יְהִי רָצוֹן מִלְּפָנֶיךָ יְיָ' אֱלֹהַי שֶׁיְּהֵא עֵסֶק זֶה לִי לִרְפוּאָה כִּי רוֹפֵא חִנָּם אָתָּה. וּכְשֶׁיֵּצֵא אוֹמֵר בָּרוּךְ אַתָּה יְיָ' רוֹפֵא חוֹלִים

One who goes for bloodletting should say "May it be Your Will, Hashem my God, that this practice should be a healing for me, because you are a free Doctor." When he is finished, he should say "Blessed are You, O God, Healer of the sick."

( free translation )

I've seen some cite the above Shulchan Aruch to require saying this before taking any medicine1 (I do this without using שם השם, when I remember to), even though he only said it regarding bloodletting. I would argue that bloodletting is close enough to surgery so that the same prayer can be used.


1 Some have even made this into a card to hand out, as mentioned in one of the comments to the question.

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I love using Hod's script :) –  Shokhet Nov 18 at 19:08

I would recommend Refuah Shlema. It comes from Numbers 12:13 when Moses asked God to heal Miriam, "Please God, heal her." From my understanding, our sages have taught us that this did not ask for complete healing, but for simple healing. Thus adding the adjective "shelma," asks for a prayer of healing to the greatest extent.

Here is the prayer transliterated and translated:

Mi-sheberakh avoteinu v'imoteinu, Avraham v'Sarah, Yitzhak v'Rivkah, Ya'akov, Rachel v'Leah hu y'varekh et (recite the English and Hebrew name) v'yavi aleihem refuat hanefesh u'refuat haguf yachad im kol cholei amo Yisrael. Barukh atah Adonai, rofeh ha'cholim.

May the One who was a source of blessing for our ancestors, bring blessings of healing upon (recite the English and Hebrew name), a healing of body and a healing of spirit. May those in whose care they are entrusted, be gifted with wisdom and skill, and those who surround them, be gifted with love and trust, openness and support in their care. And may they be healed along with all those who are in need. Blessed are You, Source of healing. Amen.

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rosenjcb, thanks for this. Any further source you can edit into your answer for the idea of saying "Refuah Shlema" specifically, and the linked-to prayer even more specifically, would be beneficial: otherwise, we have only that site's word for it. –  msh210 Jul 22 '13 at 6:20
    
I cited the explanation with an article and I cited the transliterated and translated prayer from, what seems to be, a reputable site, congregation Beth Yaakov. I would have used more citations, but stackexchange only allows me 2 links for now. –  rosenjcb Jul 22 '13 at 17:17
    
Thanks for the edit! –  msh210 Jul 22 '13 at 17:19
    
It's surprising you can say Barukh atah when this blessing is not from the Talmud (or a similarly old source). –  Ypnypn Feb 18 at 0:45
    
It's not a standardized bracha, true; however, it's permissible to say the blessing. I mean, have you ever asked yourself why we say half the kaddish prayers during davening? It's a minhag, what can I say otherwise? –  rosenjcb Feb 27 at 19:34

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