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If for whatever reason it was decided that a couple would get married then right away get divorced after the week of Sheva Brachos (believe it or not this happens!) Can they indeed still make Sheva Brachos during the week after the Chassanah? Is there any reason why if they have decided to get divorce and terminate the marriage after these days that the actual "Sheva Brachos" can't be made?

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Why would they want to make Sheva Brachot? –  Double AA Jun 19 '13 at 22:42
@DbouleAA You could ask better, why did they make the chassanah! It's part of the "show"... –  Yehoshua Jun 19 '13 at 23:22
@Yehoshua perhaps in your small part of Israel. I assure you most of the country would find doing such a thing extremely wasteful and absolutely ridiculous. –  Double AA Jun 19 '13 at 23:36
@MonicaCellio: Here's an example of a Rav who talks about the severity of breaking an engagement: revach.net/halacha/tshuvos/… -- There are indeed certain groups who will marry and divorce rather than break of the engagement (I read about it a while ago and can't remember the exact details). That being said, they probably don't throw a huge bash –  Menachem Jun 20 '13 at 4:15
@jutky it's kiddushin 51 we hold like abaye that the kiddushin works –  Double AA Jun 20 '13 at 10:31
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