- Just have her in mind
- State it outright "this is for my wife too"
- Today I saw someone do the whole thing in the plural -- "any vow that we vowed .. we hereby regret ..."
Any input on this, please?
Anecdotally, today I heard someone do #2 on your list after inquiring about #3 and being told by the beis din of hedyotos* not to.
*in the technical sense - no offense to them