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I've heard:

  • Just have her in mind
  • State it outright "this is for my wife too"
  • Today I saw someone do the whole thing in the plural -- "any vow that we vowed .. we hereby regret ..."

Any input on this, please?

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Anecdotally, today I heard someone do #2 on your list after inquiring about #3 and being told by the beis din of hedyotos* not to.

*in the technical sense - no offense to them

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Important note: bdoh.org is not yet registered, and Purim is only 6.5 months away. – Isaac Moses Sep 8 '10 at 17:15

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