Is there a comprehensive source that lists all various orthodox wedding customs (mitzvah tantz, mezinkah, etc.)?
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HaNissuim KHilkhatam is a good source of varied minhagim.
I would also look at Rav Daniel Sperber's Minhagei Yisrael which is an 8 volume set documenting thousands and thousands of minhagim from around the Jewish world.