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If one is presented with a case of either save himself or his friend, he is permitted to save himself. Does he have to?

I saw this thread which set my mind going, are the usual airplane guidelines saying to don your own life-jacket first based on the principal of Chayecha Kodmin. Because if it is and that is not Halacha, then I presume most Yiddishe Mamaehs would want their children outfitted first.

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@msh210 neither does the airplane annoucment carry any validity :) thanks for the tip –  Solomon P Aug 8 '12 at 18:35
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Don't they tell you to do it that way to maximize the chance of both of you surviving? At worst you can hold a vest-less child above water if you have a vest, but not the reverse. –  Monica Cellio Aug 8 '12 at 18:55
    
@MonicaCellio could be, gotta think about that –  Solomon P Aug 8 '12 at 18:56
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For more questions like this you should read She'elot Uteshuvot Mima'amakim by Rabbi Ephraim Oshry.

It's a collection of halachic responsa to very difficult, and sad, questions that were posed during the holocaust.

I have a pamphlet from JLI with some of the questions there, but I can not find it :(

A parent is permitted to do so for his child, even at the cost of his own life.

My best recollection is that a person is permitted to sacrifice his life to save someone else, but he is discouraged from doing so. I remember definitively that if someone actually does so, then his actions are not criticized.

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Thanks, I will be looking into that –  Solomon P Aug 8 '12 at 20:58
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You could look for it in the volumes online: Vol. 1 Vol. 2 Vol. 3 Vol. 4 Vol. 5 (found on Google) –  b a Aug 8 '12 at 21:02
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